This is a question for the men that have been married for quite some time or are in a long term relationship.
Are you truely happy/satisfied with your wife sexually?
I was reading an article the other day about "spicing" yourrelationship up. One guy admitted to liking when his wife surprised himby dressing up seductively, wore a brunette wig ( she's normally blond)and talked to him in a foreign accent while they had sex.
There were many other suggestions on the list. This one bothered meespecially because it came across to me that he was entertained by thethought of it being another woman, as if it were someone different. Ihave heard of this before.
A couple of years ago, one of my married co-workers came on to mesexually... He seemed like he had it all??... a beautiful, sweet wifeand two children together. They seemed happy together. He explained tome that he was bored at home. He wanted to touch, smell and"experience" the thrill of sex with someone new. He loved his wifedearly and would never leave her and the kids but... he was tired ofthe same old thing and wanted to have sex with me! (and probably otherstoo) I was disguested... There was no excuse in my book for this kindof behavior.
Do all men feel this way? Or most? I see so much smut everywhere. It'seven on satellite radio. My boyfriend has it and on every station,there is a man causually talking about f****** this woman or that womanlike it's no big deal... I can't listen to it. Makes me sick. Can menreally seperate their feelings?
Guys, if you could have a one night stand with another woman (and therewas no way your wife or girlfriend would ever find out.) Could you livewith yourself? Please give me some insight on this. Thanks.
co-worker, one night stand
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A female reader, person12345 + ♥, writes
Not a guy, but just pointing out that women cheat in almost equalnumbers now. Most men won't cheat, only 22% of married men have done itin their current marriage according to the most recent surveys. Not allmen are lying scumbags like your coworker. The media shows way morecheating and casual sex than actually goes on in the real world.
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