The Player's Top 5 Conquests

By The Player

What You Need To Know

You have to use a different approach for every type of girl.

Every girl can be a conquest if you use the Player's technique.

The Player's conquests are enviable, but every man can have similar success.

She was a living, breathing minefield. I had to tread carefully.
In most any discipline, track records dictate a person’s overall level of success. And when I look back at a career of memorable conquests, humiliating rejections (any secure, mature Player will admit to these) and countless experiences, I try to focus on the positives. I try to look back on my best moments with a wistful grin and a tingling of the spine. Though one must always attempt to reach higher and strive for even more fulfilling accomplishments, this list will be tough to beat. Ranging from the surprisingly unforgettable to the torrid, mind-blowing encounters that brand you forever, the Player’s Top 5 Conquests is indeed enviable. And if you wish to make similar conquests, read up on how to score some of the most difficult  yet most fulfilling targets.

The Moody Woman

The Conquered

After watching her for several weekends at one of the less-frequented cafés in the downtown area, I settled on her type: It was the don’t-anybody-talk-to-me type. Jet black hair, a slim, taut frame, piercing green eyes, and a peculiar look etched in her sharp, boldly attractive features. That look would be intimidating to anyone, even the Player. The challenge would lie in breaking through that barrier. She was a living, breathing minefield. I had to tread carefully.

Veni, Vidi, Vici

If you ever come across women like this, quickly become the most patient, sensitive human alive. She might be lonely and the aforementioned wall is keeping her from experiencing life to the fullest, so you should subtly take this angle. It’s not a bad idea to use a mirroring technique as well: She isn’t likely to respond to a familiar, easy grin and a forward style. Even risk appearing a little shy, as it might show her that such an off-putting personality is a little uncomfortable. Girls don’t like to be off-putting, regardless of their type, and this particular girl will likely become a tigress if you can expose her soft core. I managed to do just that, and “satisfying” doesn’t even begin to describe it.

The Gold Digger

The Conquered

Oh, we all know the type in question. “No Ferrari? Why are you still talking to me?” You will usually find these girls on the West Coast, and when I spotted one such platinum blonde gold digger at a club in L.A. a few months ago, it wasn’t hard to peg her as one of the “unapproachables.” I do well for myself, but my rented car wouldn’t suffice and neither would the rest of my bank account. The problem with these girls is obvious: They’ve made money the acme of a happy existence, and unless they have the jewelry and the pool, they feel incomplete. The guy has become secondary -- merely a means to an end. Hence, it’s tough to overcome with attraction skills alone.

Read on for the Player's techniques for conquering gold diggers, older women and more...

She wants the guy who can make her squeal for hours on end.

Veni, Vidi, Vici

There’s good news for all you pick-up artists out there who aren’t seeking anything permanent. Those looking for commitments need to view the gold digger as an unattainable trophy wife -- one who won’t accept any ring on her finger that can’t choke a lion. But, hey, you know what? When such a possibility is null and void, the woman lurking beneath the money-seeking party girl makes an appearance, and she doesn’t want the saggy, shapeless rich guy for only one night. She wants the guy who can make her squeal for hours on end. Just make this plain right up front, and you’ll be surprised at how quickly she might respond.

The Older Woman

The Conquered

There are seemingly ageless women out there who can compete with ladies half their age. I remember one in particular: A 32-year-old bombshell that became the center of attention at a club. See, I was only 23 at the time -- a mere Player in training -- and the intimidation factor was high. The reason why older women can prove challenging is simply because of their experience, maturity and self-confidence. They also tend to believe younger guys don’t deserve their attention, simply because they don’t have much on the ball. The one I'm speaking of dismissed most every 20-something around her with that “you can’t handle me” demeanor. It’s not an easy approach.

Veni, Vidi, Vici

There’s only one thing you need to battle the age gap: Confidence with a capital “C.” It’s the one trait mature ladies will almost always respond to, provided you don’t trip over the fine line into cockiness. Cockiness is a huge turnoff for most women over the age of 30, but if you can master a simple confidence that conveys the correct message, some of the best sex in history is nigh. It will take some time, though, so prepare for a marathon rather than a sprint. The older woman requires more proof of a man’s quality and you just can’t rush that decision. Keep at her throughout the night and keep maintaining that outward calm but clear interest and indicate you’ve bagged your fair share of such quality.

Read on to learn how to conquer the shy girl...

It’s always sweeter when you have to work for it.

The Shy Girl

The Conquered

Although it isn’t normal for the hottest chick in a group to be the shyest and most soft-spoken, that situation does occur. The problem is that you never find such girls alone, and their friends are extra protective due to their vulnerability. That gaggle of hens can give you fits; they can erect an impassable wall between you and your luscious target, and you will never pass with posturing, cockiness or any other standard pick-up tricks. In fact, such behavior will only cause those hens to clamp down tighter, and their beautiful shy friend won’t even get a chance to see your face. But when I saw her daintily sipping her drink in the middle of her friends, I just knew I needed her.


Veni, Vidi, Vici

First step: Deal with those friends. They can’t be bypassed, so just accept it. Don’t make any overt moves in the direction of their adopted daughter; embrace the whole group, and prove you’re a decent human being. Let them see you harbor no ill intentions and would never dream of infringing upon her precious purity. You’re not “that guy.” You’re interested in getting to know the shy girl, of course, but you respect the protection and are willing to take the necessary steps to gain entrance. Then, once you’re in, just be careful and err on the side of friendship at first. A bit of gentle prodding, and you might just unleash the wild woman within.

Speaking of the aforementioned "conquered," I’ve seen her recently with that same group of friends. She has moved up in the ranks and is far more receptive and open. Guess I did that.

It Takes Technique

It’s always sweeter when you have to work for it. Some girls are easily taken and easily discarded, but in truth, they don’t mean very much. They’ve never meant much to the Player, which is why he always embraces significant challenges. He does this because he knows the payoff will be a great deal more satisfying, so don’t shy away from the types of women you see here. They’re gettable, I promise.

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