What Men Do - and Don't - Notice About Your Body

By Aaron TraisterAaron Traister explains why guys don't see your supposed flaws — except when you try too hard to hide them.I woke up the other morning to find my wife, Karel, in front of her mirror, examining her stretch marks. She asked me whether I thought she should try using cream to get rid of them. I told her the truth, which was that if she really wanted to improve her appearance, she should get some more beauty sleep before our gremlins came in to rob us of whatever remains of our youth. What I didn't tell her—but should have—is this: I pretty much never notice those stretch marks. Like most guys, I'm too busy paying attention to the stuff that makes the female body so awesome. We do, however, see your obsessing and attempting to compensate for what you perceive as flaws....

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Dating For Love

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How can women break the insidious cycle of relationship failure

By: Cucan PemoNothing is more traumatic than seeing a relationship falling apart. It breeds suspicion, distrust and distance. A couple who could not live without each other at one point of time start finding reasons to stay away. The relationship failure is painful for both the partners. Both try to hurt each other; and the more they hurt each other the more they destroy what was once a very loving relationship.Signs of relationship failureIt needs no special skills to understand when a relationship starts turning sour. Some of the indicators are:1. The partners start finding fault with each other.2. They stop listening to each other3. They start spending more time outside the house4. They find less and less time, and even less reason, to touch each other or reassure each other that everything...

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How to draw genuine love to you using the Law of Attraction

By: Cucan PemoThe Law of Attraction is one of the most powerful laws in the universe. According to it like attracts like. That is why creatures of the same kind attract each other. Wherever there is one ant, you will find many more; wherever there is one farmer you will find several farmers; wherever there is a lone sheep or cow you will find a herd. We all know that wolves hunt in groups; and fish swim in packs. But have we tried to find out why? We never analyze how we make friends or companions. But if we do we will find that our friends are like us in most ways. They share the same values, the same lifestyles, the same ideas, and the same goals. This is what the Law of Attraction does; it brings all those things together that are alike.True loveMost successful marriages are those...

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Dating After Loss of a Spouse

By: elaine williamsWhen a relationship ends due to one partner dying, what is the correct time period to begin dating again? Grief is such a funny, unpredictable animal. Many people in years' past think a year is a suitable time to wait before incorporating life changes, and yet for many of us, a year into our loss - we're barely getting started on our grief journey. My experience has been that people and perhaps society as a whole, do not allow enough time or thought to the actual grief process. There is no quick fix or "getting over it" and moving on. We all move through grief in our own ways and means. There is nothing by formula that we can follow or hope to happen. Talking with others who have experienced a similar loss is definitely a plus.Some days the road is more difficult than...

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The basics about affairs, marital affairs, & married dating.

In order to understand why people are having affairs, we have to first look atwho is having affairs. In today's world, life and relationships have become increasingly complicated and boring.The spark that you once had when you initially married your spouse disappeared someswhere along the way. Before you knew it you were on the Internet with a wandering eye, looking for cheating partners and women to have an affair with to bring that happiness and excitement back into your life. You might believe that affairs are typically engaged in by middle to upper class individuals who have good jobs, a family life, and are financially stable, but the truth of the matter is that cheating does not discriminate. Typically, people who are seeking cheating partners have found their lives to be stuck...

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