5 Sex Topics You and Your Partner Must Discuss

By Charli PennIs your relationship heading to the next level? Or, maybe things have just been a bit underwhelming between the sheets? When you and your partner become intimate, ultimately great sex is the goal -- we get that. But before you hit the lights there are a few topics the two of you should cover, together, if you want to minimize your chances of an awkward moment in bed. Knowing each other’s desires, preferences, and sexual past is key in starting things off on the right foot. Here’s some great advice from two of our favorite sexperts on how to get there.Talk Fantasies, Fetishes, and DesiresBefore you laugh, listen up. “Couples should...

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Girl's Best Friend: Where Have All the Gentleman Gone?

By Nathan Hale WilliamsLast night, one of my sister-friends took my friends and I out to dinner. She was the only female at our table of five. Normally, I would feel very uncomfortable about this – a table full of guys and the woman pays – but thankfully, she owns the restaurant so it was no big deal. That said, you might call me old fashioned, but I it got me to thinking. I just don’t understand the whole concept of going “Dutch,” on dates, especially first dates.Another one of my sister-friends called me this week flabbergasted. She’d gone out with a guy for dinner and he suggested that they “split the bill.” Granted, my sister-friend does...

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10 Things You Must Do After a Breakup Read more: How To Survive a Breakup - Things To Do After a Breakup - Cosmopolitan

Katy Perry seems to be moving on from her divorce from Russell Brand, but that doesn’t make the sting of their breakup hurt any less. While we were mourning the demise of our favorite rocker couple, we spoke with relationship therapist Rachel A. Sussman, author of The Breakup Bible, for her tips on how regular girls can survive a split like a, uh, rock star.BY CASEY GUERENStrip Your Sheets.Buying all new bedding gets rid of bad bedroom energy from your room and helps you start fresh, says Sussman.Get sweaty.Pump your mood with a Zumba or boot camp class at your gym, then switch to yoga or Pilates at night to help you relax. And consider...

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The Dating Game: When's the Right Time for Sex?

Experts discuss the consequences of not playing by your own dating rules. By Elizabeth HeubeckWhether you're new to the dating scene, a regular player, or jumping back into the game after a long hiatus, the same questions about dating rules apply: How soon do you lean over for that first kiss? Is it too early for a steamy make-out session? And last -- but by no means least -- how do you know when the time is right for sex? "There's really no formula that I've encountered," says 28-year-old Andrew Reymer, a single resident of Baltimore, Maryland. "It depends on how rapidly or slowly things progress."Joan Allen, a relationship expert, finds that baby boomers are far more likely to wait to have sex than younger daters."Especially among older people who went through the sexual revolution,...

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Wishing On A Star

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The Player's Top 5 Conquests

By The PlayerWhat You Need To KnowYou have to use a different approach for every type of girl.Every girl can be a conquest if you use the Player's technique.The Player's conquests are enviable, but every man can have similar success.She was a living, breathing minefield. I had to tread carefully.In most any discipline, track records dictate a person’s overall level of success. And when I look back at a career of memorable conquests, humiliating rejections (any secure, mature Player will admit to these) and countless experiences, I try to focus on the positives. I try to look back on my best moments with a wistful grin and a tingling of the...

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