Men, would you cheat on your partner if you knew you wouldn't get caught?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:This is a question for the men that have been married for quite some time or are in a long term relationship. Are you truely happy/satisfied with your wife sexually?I was reading an article the other day about "spicing" yourrelationship up. One guy admitted to liking when his wife surprised himby dressing up seductively, wore a brunette wig ( she's normally blond)and talked to him in a foreign accent while they had sex.There were many other suggestions on the list. This one bothered meespecially because it came across to me that he was entertained...

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Coping Learning to deal with one's emotions and loss.

7 months My ex travelled across Europe to declare his love for me, to tell me he was obsessed with me. He planned a party so I could meet more of his friends and to help me have some fun after an important hospital appointment. After he left to go back to his city, a few days later, when I was in bed recovering from my hospital appointment, I received an email from him telling me it was over. A week later, he got together with a girl at that party. I didn't know this when I travelled to his city for work and we met up. The day after, I told him I still loved him. Then he told me he never loved me. I sent a few crazy messages after that. Silly, I know, but I was devastated and angry. I was so reluctant to get into a relationship with him in the beginning but he persuaded me to give...

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Do You Believe in Chemistry?

By David WygantI had an interesting conversation with a client last night.He asked me the same question over and over again.It’s a question that a lot of guys ask me:“What do you think of the women that just don’t want to talk to you?”And…“I don’t understand why they just don’t want to talk to me. Shouldn’t I be able to relate to them?”Take a look at what I just wrote.Shouldn’t I be able to relate to them?Think about this for a second:Do you get along with everybody at work? Are you friends with everybody at work, or is there one or two people that you just really don’t like?You know, they walk into the office and you just...

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It's Official: Bobbi Kristina Brown Is Engaged To "Step Brother" Nick Gordon. Is Wearing One Of Whitney Houston's Diamond Rings To Seal The Deal

by ChasinDatPapert looks like all of the rumors can be put to bed now. Bobbi Kristina Brown and Nick Gordon are officially engaged according to US Weekly.19-year old Bobbi is the only child of Bobby Brown and late singer Whitney Houston, and who died suddenly on February 11 at the age of 48. Gordon, now 22-years old, was practically raised by Houston from the time he was 12-years although he was never formerly adopted.The couple is reportedly living together in one of Houston's Atlanta homes. Bobbi is using one of her deceased mom's diamond rings as an engagement ring to Nick."The situation is...

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Reader's Dilemma: I Regret Losing My Virginity, But I Want to Keep Dating the Guy.

by Gena KaufmanYou guys have told me all about your first times, so I know some of you didn't have the best experiences. Well, a confused reader just had sex for the first time, but she regrets it. Let's try to talk her through it...She writes:Dear Smitten, OK, so I should probably start out with a little background info: I'm a 21-year-old virgin (or I was). I have been dating this guy for about a week and I lost my virginity to him and now I regret it but I still want to be with him and he wants to be with me. How do I deal with the awkward feelings without chasing him away? I really really like him and I'm confused. Please help. Sincerely,...

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Ask Dr. Sherry: Why Can't I Get a Man's Attention?

By Dr. SherryYou've seen celebrity clinical psychologist Dr. Sherry Blake, author of The Single Married Woman: True Stories of Why Women Feel All Alone In Their Marriages, keep the Braxton sisters calm on the hit show "Braxton Family Values," and now it's your turn to sit in her chair. We asked our Facebook fans what they'd like to ask Dr. Sherry, and boy did the burning questions start rolling in. She wants to help you too, and she will. What would you like to ask Dr. Sherry? Email us your questions now! Q: Can a woman give off vibes to deter attention from men? I used to think it was my weight that made men uninterested...

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Girl's Best Friend: You Can't Stay Together If You Grow Apart

By Nathan Hale Williams When riding the Tube in London, there’s a phrase you hear over and over again, “Mind the Gap.” The recorded message is your reminder that there’s a large space in between the platform and the train. It cautions you to be aware of the gap between the two so you don’t fall and hurt yourself. The same is true when gaps begin to form in relationships, you must mind the gap before it gets too big and hurts your relationship. At the end of last year, I was speaking with one of my sister-friends who has been experiencing a difficult time in her marriage. She and her husband both travel extensively for work and lately,...

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2 guys and I have no idea which one to pick!

A female age 22-25, *ummers_247 writes:Dear cupid,I can’t decide which man I want to be with! Please can you offer your advice on what I should do?There were problems in my relationship with M when I first met S. I hadmoved to university in a new town (though this was already planned whenwe started dating), and the distance was really hard for both of us.Prior to me moving here, I started to notice that there were many gapsin our relationship. I no longer felt intimate about M, he was jealousand insecure, and I wasn't attracted to him anymore. We hardly ever hadsex, and I started...

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