7 THINGS YOU SHOULD BE COMFORTABLE DOING IN FRONT OF YOUR MAN

By jaustinI’ve been in some bad relationships—some I would even call toxic. And then I’ve been in some fully functioning, happy and healthy ones. And the major differences I saw between the two were these:Getting mad (at him)You shouldn’t fear letting your man know when he’s upset you. So many women are afraid to bring up an issue because the guy either punishes them by saying, “You’re being dramatic” (if he doesn’t just straight up leave) or he completely goes on the defensive, making the issue ten times worse. Women can get pushed into a place of never expressing their thoughts about the relationship, for fear that it will make them...

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WHAT IF HE’S HAD MORE SEX THAN ME?

We're happy to present this story from one of our favorite sites, The Good Men Project. Today a woman is uncomfortable with her boyfriend’s level of sexual experience and asks for advice from a man and a woman.Dear Sexes: My boyfriend and I have been expressing an interest in more sexual variety (anal sex, toys, etc.). Since I don’t have a wealth of experience, I’ve been looking forward to trying out new things with him together. That is, until he recently revealed that he has actually already done most of what we discussed with other partners — and now I unexpectedly feel uncomfortable with our different levels of experience and us...

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what does he want from me???

what does he want from me???I met this guy through work he was in a different department and he was so into me at least I think so based on his flirting and behavior. One day I was asked by upper management to transfer to the same department as him and we were both happy about it. But once it was official his communication wasn't the same anymore. Spent most of his time around other male coworkers from other departments when he never did before and it amazed me how wed never talk about departmental projects when normally colleagues would.It saddened me to be neglected in a way but I did ask him calmly about us needing to plan meetings because...

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The One Who Got Away

By eHarmony StaffFive reasonable, rational ways to try to “reel in” someone you loved and lostSomeone once said that romance is like a can of spray paint—once the propellant is gone, it’s done with and over. Fuggeddaboutit! That would certainly seem to be conventional wisdom, judging by how things typically work. Break-ups are usually a one-way street. But not always. Granted, it is important to avoid clinging to something that is gone for good. In that case, grieve your loss—or let your anger run its course—and then move on. But sometimes it’s possible to back up and take another run at a relationship that just needed a hiatus to allow...

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Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon Plan 4th Vow Renewal

By Derrick Bryson TaylorBelieve it or not, it's been five years since Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon wed in a surprise ceremony at Carey's home in the Bahamas in 2008. Each year since, the couple has renewed their wedding vows, and this year, despite Cannon's ongoing health issues, they will say "I do" once more.Cannon told Life & Style, "We get married every year; it's our thing. I just have to keep doing it to make sure it's real!" This time around things will certainly be different. In addition to April 30th being the couple's wedding anniversary, it also happens to be the birthday of their twins Monroe and Moroccan-Scott. "It's...

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