Dating A Coworker

BY DOC LOVEWHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DATE A COWORKER?How can I keep her from becoming my buddy without causing problems at the office or being a jerk?"This week, Doc Love, author of "The System," tells a reader how to deal with a breakup after dating a coworker. Hey Doc,I’ve been a self-sustaining individual most of my life. I left home early, made my way through college, joined the Army, started a consulting career, and then finally settled in Edmonton, Canada, at the age of 29. I haven’t built much experience with women other than one-night stands, so I’ve nursed delusions of grandeur and tried to find “the one girl” who I’ll live my life with.I...

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Clinging or Controlling?

Every relationship has growing pains when partners are trying to understand each other. Sometimes, it may feel like even though your partner is speaking your language, they are speaking in tongues because their feelings behind the words are so different from your own. Getting used to your new partner’s habits can take some time and require a hefty dose of patience. Some partners need constant communication while his or her partner feels like they are bombarded by a wave of messages. We here at loveisrespect get a lot of questions from our callers and chatters about what behaviors are just signs of clingy partner and which may point to a controlling...

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Nerve.com Launches Algorithm-Free Online Dating Site

By Claire GordonAnyone who has crafted a message on OkCupid knows that online dating is still a very unnatural act. You scan the stranger's profile, wittily riff off of their listed interests, insert a few choice questions, and acknowledge how weird the whole thing is (using the words "sorry," "apologize," and "awkward" in your first message ups the likelihood of reply). Nerve.com hopes to make this whole experience less stilted, and on Wednesday launched its new love portal, Nerve Dating.It isn't Nerve.com's first foray into online matchmaking. Nerve Personals were also intended to "energize the world of online dating" over a decade ago. Rufus...

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How to meet women

Why is it so hard to meet women?Well, I've got an interesting answer to this question, and you're going to be very surprised at the answer.A lot of guys assume that it's really hard to learn how to meet women. But let's look a little closer at WHY they feel this:#1 Reason It's Hard To Learn How To Meet Women: "Where are all the single women?"Well, it's tempting to believe that all the single women are hiding out in a witness protection program out there, but they're not. They're hiding in plain sight.You walk by them every day on the street.You see them every day at work.There are approximately 90 million single...

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TEACH YOUR MAN TO GIVE YOU AN ORGASM!

Do you want your man to really please you in bed? Many guys enjoy performing oral sex on women, but they don't always do it right. Contrary to popular belief, using your mouth and tongue won't always turn a woman on. If your man isn't using his mouth and tongue the right way, he will just end up making you feel uncomfortable.Don't worry, though, you can guide your man along the way and teach him how to perform oral sex the right way! He can become a better lover. He just needs to realize that no two women are exactly alike. What might have worked on his ex-girlfriend might not necessarily work for you.What your man needs to do...

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I know now that there is no you without me...

By Tiffany B.My life has been so empty for so long,no one to love or call my own.I patiently waited for that time to come,To share this special with someone.Until you came from the mist, unexpectedly,Taking me as I am and accepting me.You filled the emptiness that laid inside,releasing me form my bitterness and pride.We shared endless moments together,questioning if the feelings were true,Not realizing how fast time had flew.The time had come for me to part and go away,The words goodbye I had refused to say.I am now miles away from the one I love,things are so different, but your still all I think of.A day seems like year and a month feels like forever,I think about the times we spent, and THATI will always treasure.Your soft brown eyes that made me shy away,your cute little smile...

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Real Love in Dating

Millions of us are out there looking for the “right person”—in bars, at parties, in clubs, at church, and on Internet dating sites, to name a few of the ways we look. Many of us actually succeed in finding what we’re looking for, and then we fall in love, but what happens after that?60% of marriages end in divorce, and 50% of married women have indicated that if not for finances and children, they would leave their husbands. That leaves only 20% of marriages that would even survive if the partners felt they had a reasonable choice to leave. It is my experience—and that of many other counselors—that 1-2% of all married couples achieve relationships...

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What is Real Love?

Real Love: The Love We’ve All Been Looking For — Unconditional LoveWe've heard songs about it, seen it in the movies, heard it talked about on Oprah by relationship experts, and read about it in thousands of self help books. But, what is unconditional love? We all want to feel loved. We think about it, hope for it, fantasize about it, go to great lengths toachieve it, and feel that our lives are incomplete without it. The lack of unconditional love is the cause of most of our anger and confusion. It is no exaggeration to say that our emotional need for unconditional love is just as great as our physical need for air and food.It is especially...

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