Find Gratitude for Relationships That Are Hard to Be Grateful for

By Lubov SkurinaBeing grateful for your past relationships, is the key to attracting better relationship experiencesBeing grateful for your past relationships, even for the most painful ones, is the key to establishing yourself in a better place and opening up for a different relationship experience. The question is: How can we bring ourselves to be grateful for something that caused us pain, humiliation, abuse…? And by the way, what’s there to be grateful for?Every relationship (like everything else in life) happens for a reason. The reason is – to help us grow. We have 2 choices: either to understand the lesson that we were supposed to learn and cherish the wisdom that we acquired from the situation, or to remain in the land of Victimhood and accumulate emotional baggage while...

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7 Signs Your Feelings Are Stronger Than His

November 25th, 2011 - By jaustinUsually, we just don’t want to admit it when men don’t feel as strongly for us as we do for them. “That’s just how guys act” is how we explain their behavior. “He is just a little clueless when it comes to relationships” is another one. Look—if a guy really, really likes you, he gets a clue. Better to be aware of these signs that he is not as into you as you are into him, then to let that disparity of feelings continue to grow:You check with him before you plan:You don’t say yes to something you’re invited to on a Saturday until you’ve checked to see what your guy is doing. Saturday is the only day you two get to spend much time together, and you wouldn’t want to sabotage that. On the flip side, he just lets you know that he is going to do x, y, or z. It’s already...

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How To Meet Someone New During the Holidays

By Bonny AlboSingle? You're not alone. And depending on your point of view, being single during the holidays can be good - and bad. On one hand you have no one to bring with you to all of the special events that only crop up during the holidays. But on the other hand? Those same yearly events are prime places to meet someone new.For those not wanting to be single during the holidays, here are some tips to assist you in finding a holiday date.Let People Know You Are Single and Looking to Meet Someone NewTell your friends you are more than willing to accompany another single person on a holiday event should they need a date. Announce to your family that you're single this holiday season, but may very well bring someone else along to the festivities who doesn't have family close by to celebrate...

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Juicy Jincey's Guide to Online Dating: Finding Love or Just a One-Night Stand

Jincey LumpkinFounder and Chief Sexy Officer, Juicy Pink BoxBefore I got married I was a big old slut.I dated and slept with lots of different women, and I conquered with every slick move possible. I tried every possible combination of dating strategies known to humankind. Therefore, I can tell you tricks that work, and which maneuvers will keep you dateless or create awkward moments.Whether you want to fall in love and get married -- which I did -- or simply acquire some nice booty action, this guide is for you. It's tailored to lesbians, but we can think of it as a guide for "the lesbian inside all of us." This guide covers only online dating. Some other time I will cover the topics of meeting people elsewhere. Until then, read on and discover the magic of online dating.Internet Dating:Dating...

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Dating: Mixed signals

by Wise DivaMost of us have been subjected to the mixed signals of dating. You get a green light, then you get a red one. Things get red hot, then suddenly they turn cold. What gives?!A friend of mine is dating a guy who only kicks up his efforts when she acts as if she is not interested in him. She will ignore his calls and text messages for a few days and put him on the back burner. That is when he kicks it into high gear and pursues her more. Their most romantic dates usually occur after she decides he is out of her life.Perhaps it is about having a challenge; maybe he is dating multiple people and wants to keep her in the mix. Do you think that mixed signals is really just a sign that someone is being played?What do you do when the person you are seeing starts to get a little flaky...

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Dating Rules for Women

The Do's and Dont's of dating for the modern femaleGuys: If you don't like this, look away now.In another dating article on this site, you will find a general set of rules than men should follow when dating. In the same way, women have some general rules that they should contend with when entering the dating jungle. Now I know everyone is different, so don't take things too seriously here. There has been some controversy over some literature published in the USA that lays out in detail the rules a woman should follow to get her guy (or gal). Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider's 1995 bestseller "The Rules," explains how women should play hard if they want to get their guy. I can understand why some groups would be hostile about this, but the fact is that when we grow up, there are a predefined...

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