Sunday, January 8, 2012

Tap Into Your Feminine Power So He’ll Find You Irresistible And Risk EVERYTHING To Be With You

by Rori Raye


Have you ever wondered what it would be like to have your man (or any man you desire) throw himself at your feet in total devotion, willing to risk EVERYTHING just to be with you?
It may seem like a fantasy, yet - there are women all over the world who are experiencing this right now.
You probably know a woman just like this. She’s not particularly beautiful. She may not even be the smartest, most successful woman you know. Or the most generous or kind or funny. Certainly, she doesn’t have as much “going for her” as you do!
But somehow she just knows how to “hook” men in a way that seems almost effortless. She always has great men trailing after her. She seems to know how to inspire life-long devotion in a man - from the first meeting all the way through years and years of marriage.
What secret does a woman like this have that makes her so irresistible to men?
If you’ve ever devoted your heart, time, and energy to a man who wouldn’t commit, only to watch him marry a woman like this, I know how you feel. It’s what happened to me before I discovered the answer to this question:

Why Do Some Women Have Men Fighting To Be With Them, While It’s Such A Struggle For Us?

These women are Modern Sirens. Just like the myth they are named for, these women know how to inspire a man to sacrifice everything for them, including their “freedom” to be with any other woman.
In classical Greek myths, the Sirens are creatures - half woman, half animal who play and sing on beautiful, flower-filled islands. The beauty of their voices is mesmerizing to anyone who hears. Men are so enraptured by the Siren’s song that they jump off their boats, swim for the island, let their boats crash on the rocks, and give up everything to be with them.
What we can learn in these stories is that ALL women naturally have this power. All women have a Siren Song. All women have the power to hypnotically attract a man. You are NOT the exception. Being a Siren is your birthright as a woman!
The most powerful asset you need to connect with a man is already inside you. All you need to do is understand the power you have, believe in it, and know HOW to USE it.
There is a real way to attract men like a magnet - even the man you’re with right now who seems so disinterested and cold - WITHOUT worrying about all the things we women have been TAUGHT to worry about, and using the strengths and qualities you ALREADY HAVE.
I know you can do it, because if I could turn around my years of loneliness and lovelessness, into the brilliant and emotionally intimate relationship I now have with my husband - then I know you can, too.

The 3 Dead-End Roads Women Try To Take To A Man’s Heart - That Will Actually PREVENT Him From Falling In Love

Most women continuously try all the wrong ways to get love, and end up pushing men away instead. These dead-end roads prevent men from connecting with you - deeply and emotionally - so your relationships are only temporary or never happen at all.
These roads only lead you to a friend, or a “player” or a man just “passing through” on his way to the real love of his life. If you want to inspire his affection and commitment, you need to stop going down these roads.

Wrong Road #1: The Logical Road (MIND)

You shine during a discussion, and you have a lot in common. You’ll impress a man and make him enjoy your company, but you may feel disappointed to learn that he feels no CHEMISTRY.
That’s because when you try to connect with a man through his mind, he doesn’t FEEL a thing! Oh, he may “enjoy being with you,” but he never gets TOUCHED by you in a deep, connected, emotional sense.
He never feels like he’s about to lose control of himself and fall in love.

Wrong Road #2: The Physical Road (BODY)

Despite what a lot of women think, men do not become attached through sex, even if it’s fabulous. We’ve all been sold on the idea that a woman who likes sex and is “good” in bed is ALL IMPORTANT to a man.
And it’s not. It’s just a small part of the whole picture for him. All it DOES give you is a “sex buddy,” not a partner, not a boyfriend, not a husband. Not a man who wants anything “real” with you.

Wrong Road #3: The Spiritual Road (SPIRIT)

I’ve met many women who value their spiritual beliefs and want to be with a man who SHARES their values and spiritual interest and commitment. And it’s SO EASY to mistake the friendship that can grow between two people who worship in the same way, who care about the same things, for a passionate, emotional bond.
And yet, all that will get you - at best - is a deep friendship. He’ll tell everyone what a great woman you are, but he won’t be dreaming about you night after night or longing to hold you in his arms.

The 4th Road - And The ONLY Way To A Man’s Heart

There’s a 4th Road, and it’s the only road to a man’s heart: and that’s emotionally connecting THROUGH his heart!
This Emotional Road - the Heart Road - was the only one I never even TRIED. And I never tried it because I didn’t even know what it WAS! I was so out of touch with my emotions, always operating out of my head or my body, that I couldn’t find my OWN heart - much less connect to HIS.
Look at the couples around you. True connection of the heart has nothing to do with our accomplishments, our brains, our “strategies” with men, our backgrounds, the clothes we wear or the friends we have.
It has EVERYTHING to do with how we feel about ourselves, how we feel about the world,how we feel about men, how we feel in the MOMENT, and how we want our lives to be.
Being a Modern Siren means having the ability to draw a man TO you without playing games, knowing any special skills, or having a perfect body.
Being a Modern Siren means that a man will want to be with you despite the danger of losing himself, the peril of the chase, the risk to his “freedom” and all a man holds dear about being single.
A Modern Siren is so confident in her secret power to compel a man to want to be with her, that a man wouldn’t DARE take the chance of losing her. He wants her more than he’s wanted anyone in his life.
Have The Relationship You Want


Friday, January 6, 2012


When Keeping it Real Goes Wrong: Relationship Edition

Honesty is the best policy! Right?

WRONG!

While last time I talked about the importance of being able to lie as necessary for a happy relationship, the truth is I love telling the truth, and it should be done as much as possible.  I’m more than happy to drop my 2 cents when needed (probably explains why I started this blog).

But sometimes … honesty just doesn’t work. There are some things that people don’t every want to or need to hear. There are sometimes when, especially in a relationship: “Keeping it real” goes wrong

***disclaimer***    This applies to people in a real relationship (Girl/Boyfriend, Fiancee, Husband/Wife). You can tell your Jumpoff and FwB whatever the f* is on your mind.

It looks like you are gaining weight

I’ve been on this earth almost 30 years and no matter what woman in my life I’m talking to, I haven’t found a single successful way to let any of them know they are gaining weight. The few times I was stupid enough to even try it resulted in crying or me being cursed the f* out.  Usually this comment comes out of a real belief that your health may be at risk. Alas … if you ever feel the need to tell this to a female (and most forms of b**** n****s and sensitive guys for the ladies) … just stop.

Your friend is a little [sexier, smarter, cuter, a better head giver] than you

Nobody wants to be told by the love of their life that one of their friends would make a better mate. I don’t care if you are talking about Lex Steele, please sell me on the dream that I can do anything and everything he can do, or you just don’t care about whatever he is better at. Now, when we are all in the same room, someone is getting hot every time said friend and the significant other talk for more than 5 minutes.  People have died over this … don’t do it.

F* yo couch! aka (That thing you love is dumb as f___)

If you have been with me through the years, you know my musical tastes (F* R&B and give me Chopped & Screwed all day).  Once, this chic sitting in my car had the audacity to utter out of her mouth “I think Chopped & Screwed is stupid”. I gave her a side eye so mean that besides instantly causing her head to swell … I damn near hit the car in front of me. Basically, if you don’t like something that your significant other does, don’t call it stupid, don’t insult it (some playful jokes are OK), and don’t make them feel bad about it. People have gotten choked out for less.

Yes I know that s/he likes me, but I don’t like them back

I don’t give a f*. If you know one of your friends wants to steal you away from me, and you have the situation under control, don’t confess to me about that. I will be looking at this person with the fiercest mean mug everytime he enters my presence. And if you ever make the mistake of telling a female that … go ahead and delete the phone number now because she will have a restraining order on her within 24 hours.

I’ve had tighter …

Need I say more? Lie, lie, lie until you think that God is personally about to come down and slap the voice out of your mouth.  As far as she needs to know, it’s the tightest, wettest, warmest, and best stuff you have ever gotten into. She is your girl now … not a jumpoff.  Think strategically.

I’ve had bigger …

Shhhhheeeeeeeettttttttt! I wish a motherf***er would. I just can’t see how any guy is going to take this well unless his woman spent several years in adult films before meeting him.

Honesty is a beautiful thing. When people say what is on their mind, it can give a relationship the staying power it needs. But with great power comes great repsonsibility. Don’t get yourself cut?

What are your “When Keeping It Real in A Relationship Goes Wrong” moments?

- SBM aka EBM aka I know I really am the biggest





















 
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