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By Charli Penn 10 Signs Your Sex Life Needs a Makeover
If you answered “yes” to any of the above questions, it could mean your sex life needs a boost. And if your sex drive is suffering, your relationship may suffer, too. But you can’t solve the problem unless you’re actually sure you’re having one. So, first things first: You need to determine whether your limited libido is just a rough patch, or the sign of a serious, permanent problem. Here are 10 red flags to help you figure it out.
You'd Rather Just Go to Bed
important to your daily health, but choosing sleep
over sex time after time is anything but a good sign.
You Suspect He's Faking It
seems to be in the mood when you accuse him of
not, there's a strong chance he's faking the attraction
to spare your feelings. Sit him down and explain to
him that you're looking for genuine emotions from
him, then ask what you two can do together to work
on enhancing the mood.
Bedtime Has Gotten Boring
Most couples have been there before, at least
once. You know the scenario: You're in the heat of
the moment and just when things are really
getting hot and heavy, someone pauses to bring
up something random and way off-topic, like a late
bill, or an overdue RSVP. The first time it happens,
it's funny, but if this continues, you must ask
yourselves one very important question: Why are
we suddenly so distracted?
Your Sexiness Goes Unnoticed
That sexy little number you bought for him during your
last visit to the lingerie boutique is red-hot, yet the first
time he saw you in it, it didn't even raise his
temperature. Sound familiar? Ask him what's on his
mind. If there's something more pressing than you
looking irresistible in next to nothing, you need to
know about it.
You're Off Schedule
If the romps you used to have nightly are happening
so seldom that you can't even remember the last
time you had sex, it's time to address the matter.
Most couples have a sex schedule, and if yours is
suddenly wide-open there's certainly room for
change.
There's No Time to Cuddle
Occasional quickies aside, neither of you should
want to rush sex. Putting intimacy on a timer is a
recipe for disaster. if you find yourselves frequently
saying things like "Only if we hurry," or "Can you hurry
it up, please?", something's definitely got to give.
He's Just Not Feeling It
If your sex drive is in full gear and each night he
passes on your advances, something is wrong.
Barring a rough day, there should be no real reason
he repeatedly passes on lovemaking.
The Kids Are Coming to Bed
If lately, every time the little ones peek in asking, :Can
we sleep with you tonight?" he's the first to respond,
"Sure, hop in,"your sex life could be headed to the
danger zone it happens, sure, but if you're sharing
your bed more usual, you should both be equally
annoyed.
Date Nights Fall Short
The scented candles are lit, the bubble bath is
waiting, and the smooth sounds of R&B can be heard
blaring through your stereo. There's just one thing
missing: you two. The mood is set, but you're both
just not feeling the love. Feeling anything but romantic
in a setting that sensual means it's time to look
within to find out what's causing your dry spell.
Porn Becomes a Problem
Let's face it, many men like to watch pornography
from time to time. Your personal feelings about it
aside, this can be normal, but what isn't is when the
scenes on the screen become more appealing to
him than his real-life role with you. Ask him if he'd like
to bring one of his favorite scenes to life. Role playing
can bring new intimacy and excitement to your love
life.
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